Sunday, 15 July 2012

To understand a woman...

It takes a lot to understand a woman.. 

       A woman is very sensitive. Her feelings are very delicate... If something goes wrong, out of track, she feels really bad...especially when it is because of someone she really loves..be it a girl or a guy.. And if her expectations are not reached, she feels low.. really low..

    Sometimes to understand a woman, it is even difficult for another woman.. Her emotions.. u just cant say how she would react unless u know her really really well.. If her mood is good, and she likes the other person, she will accept anything.. And if it is bad she just does not care who it is and what they have done!!!  She might regret later but at that particular point, she just reacts...

   She tolerates anything for the one she loves.. Even if she thinks she loves somebody, the sky is the limit to do anything that pleases him.. She just needs to believe that the guy loves her truly.. 

She also works, just like her husband, she also goes in the morning and comes back in the evening, she still cooks, takes care of her children and their emotions, keep the house clean, put everything in its place, satisfy the entire family, her in-laws and other relatives... And if she is lucky enough, she will get someone who really really loves her, who will share some of these responsibilities and this makes her really happy. It takes so much to understand what she does, what she deserves and what actually pleases her.. You need to love her truly to understand what she actually desires and what makes her tremendously happy.. Her little things are much more important for her than most of her other things. She is possessive about her friends and her Love, only because she cannot afford to lose them or him.

She expects her husband to understand everything she does and says and feels really happy and secured in his arms. That's her favorite place.. And the way she hides her sorrows is totally Amazing.. Her smiling face, need not smile from the inside all the time.. She, with so many problems from the society, home, personal life, faces everything and still smiles like nothing happened just to assure to her people that everything is fine and one need not worry about her. True that she needs help and support all the time. She tries to get it from her husband. And in case she cannot, she keeps quiet. She does not complain.

Most of them complain that a woman is crazy and she gets everything easily unlike a man who has to struggle to get it. But its her sweet way of talking and her innocent smile that flatters people. She is just so amazing...

The best form of a woman is "MOTHER". As a mother, she does so much for her children.. She tolerates the most painful thing in the world.. the delivery pain.. The way she takes care of her child is truly amazing.. A man is nothing compared to that of a woman in this regard. "God cannot be present everywhere.. hence he created Mother" How true it is!!! mother is the best best-friend you can ever have. I, for instance, share every damn thing with her and she guides me in the right way in the right method. A woman is just so Amazing...


Her sacrifices, her deeds, her struggles, her faith, her pity, everything is to be remembered. She needs to be respected and treated the way she deserves it. Every woman is special in someway or the other. Only someone who loves her whole heartedly will know how beautiful she is from the inside. the outer beauty is so very artificial. She puts makeup to boost her confidence, to make herself more presentable...not just to deceive somebody. Every woman is beautiful in a special way. You just need to know her completely to realize what about her is the most beautiful character.. Her smile, her eyes.. It could be anything..

Respect woman. It is not so easy to be one. Respect her demands and give her what she deserves. Make her feel special.. There are so many women around you... your mother, sister, friends, teachers, anybody.. let them know how beautiful they are.. It is not so easy to understand a woman...

Saturday, 7 July 2012

My childhood summers

From my childhood, every summer has been very productive for me. I joined various courses right from my childhood. I really thank my dad for that. It all started with swimming for three years n then dance, 3 camps, veena classes, craft workshop, carnatic music, yoga, IETE course, swimming again, another camp in my inter first year, spanish in my first year again....These r the things i did only in my summer...apart from things like kuchpudi regular, keyboard and things like that.

This summer I was worried as I dint join or learn anything. I had many plans to learn driving, horse riding, dance and many more things. But i could'nt join anywhere. For some reason I went on visiting places like vizag, Bubaneshwar, Vijayawada, Chennai, Warangal and Vijayawada again within a span of 20 days! (from 21st June to 16th July 2010). Most of my my friends, joined swimming, driving n other courses.

I then realised that traveling so much and adjusting to different kinds of food and climatic conditions is not easy. I traveled to places like Bubaneshwar without knowing anything about the place and I enjoyed their kind of life style and the adventure with my dad. This itself is a new thing to learn. The experience taught me so much.I am glad about it and i thank my dad for making me what i am...
And this summer (May-June 2012), almost 3 months of solid holidays, i have interned for a month and a half, had friends who stayed at home for 3-4 days and had a lovely time staying with them all the time.. Even attended a camp on study cum training program on "Social Media" organized by Cardijn Community International, "CCI" held at Secunderabad. This was a lovely experience. I now am a member of this wonderful group, which is trying to change the world...