Saturday, 11 April 2015

Relationships Today....

Do we really prioritize people and relationships over fun and money? Do we recharge our phone enough to talk to our beloved relations? Do we travel enough to get to know if someone you share a bond with, really needs you? Do you really love all the people you say are important to you? You think you give them enough time to let them speak their mind out?

Think it out!!! Write it somewhere or speak it out to some anonymous trustworthy person. Because when you talk about something, you actually know what you need.

Talk, not because they need to know your perspective, but because you need to know yourself. 

Who really does the talking these days. Relationships break because of distances and  selfishness. You talk only when you feel like talking. You dont when you dont want to even though there is no reasonable reason at all. Why cant we walk in somebody else's shoes? Why cant we consider the relationship and not think about ourselves. Why doesn't this 'break' remind us of all the hopes and promises we made to the other person? Whenever any situation arises, the first thing we should be considering is, 'is the relationship more valuable or the reason behind the fight'. 

Every relationship is like a parent child relationship. Deal with the adolescence and the child will become your best friend forever. 

What do we really need? What do we do? How can we find the answers for all these without talking out whats on our head.. We need to open up. To someone. Be it your girl friend, o brother o a childhood friend, just express yourself. Not because they deserve to know your life but because you trust them and you need to know what is really going on... 

You can run away or not think about situations very easily. But you need to have the courage to think about a problem, face it and fight it. Because you might run away from it fr a day, or 2 or 3 months o may be an year. But it wont leave you in peace. 


#This is based on a real life incident. Any resemblance to any characters either virtual or existential is not coincidence at all#





3 comments:

Sandeep said...

These are some open questions that usually takes lifetime to get answers

Unknown said...

So true...

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