Sunday, 15 July 2012

To understand a woman...

It takes a lot to understand a woman.. 

       A woman is very sensitive. Her feelings are very delicate... If something goes wrong, out of track, she feels really bad...especially when it is because of someone she really loves..be it a girl or a guy.. And if her expectations are not reached, she feels low.. really low..

    Sometimes to understand a woman, it is even difficult for another woman.. Her emotions.. u just cant say how she would react unless u know her really really well.. If her mood is good, and she likes the other person, she will accept anything.. And if it is bad she just does not care who it is and what they have done!!!  She might regret later but at that particular point, she just reacts...

   She tolerates anything for the one she loves.. Even if she thinks she loves somebody, the sky is the limit to do anything that pleases him.. She just needs to believe that the guy loves her truly.. 

She also works, just like her husband, she also goes in the morning and comes back in the evening, she still cooks, takes care of her children and their emotions, keep the house clean, put everything in its place, satisfy the entire family, her in-laws and other relatives... And if she is lucky enough, she will get someone who really really loves her, who will share some of these responsibilities and this makes her really happy. It takes so much to understand what she does, what she deserves and what actually pleases her.. You need to love her truly to understand what she actually desires and what makes her tremendously happy.. Her little things are much more important for her than most of her other things. She is possessive about her friends and her Love, only because she cannot afford to lose them or him.

She expects her husband to understand everything she does and says and feels really happy and secured in his arms. That's her favorite place.. And the way she hides her sorrows is totally Amazing.. Her smiling face, need not smile from the inside all the time.. She, with so many problems from the society, home, personal life, faces everything and still smiles like nothing happened just to assure to her people that everything is fine and one need not worry about her. True that she needs help and support all the time. She tries to get it from her husband. And in case she cannot, she keeps quiet. She does not complain.

Most of them complain that a woman is crazy and she gets everything easily unlike a man who has to struggle to get it. But its her sweet way of talking and her innocent smile that flatters people. She is just so amazing...

The best form of a woman is "MOTHER". As a mother, she does so much for her children.. She tolerates the most painful thing in the world.. the delivery pain.. The way she takes care of her child is truly amazing.. A man is nothing compared to that of a woman in this regard. "God cannot be present everywhere.. hence he created Mother" How true it is!!! mother is the best best-friend you can ever have. I, for instance, share every damn thing with her and she guides me in the right way in the right method. A woman is just so Amazing...


Her sacrifices, her deeds, her struggles, her faith, her pity, everything is to be remembered. She needs to be respected and treated the way she deserves it. Every woman is special in someway or the other. Only someone who loves her whole heartedly will know how beautiful she is from the inside. the outer beauty is so very artificial. She puts makeup to boost her confidence, to make herself more presentable...not just to deceive somebody. Every woman is beautiful in a special way. You just need to know her completely to realize what about her is the most beautiful character.. Her smile, her eyes.. It could be anything..

Respect woman. It is not so easy to be one. Respect her demands and give her what she deserves. Make her feel special.. There are so many women around you... your mother, sister, friends, teachers, anybody.. let them know how beautiful they are.. It is not so easy to understand a woman...

3 comments:

Ravi Kiran said...

Most of them complain that a woman is crazy and she gets everything easily unlike a man who has to struggle to get it. But its her sweet way of talking and her innocent smile that flatters people.
So, the reason is valid, but the things get easy. Don't they?

She puts makeup to boost her confidence, to make herself more presentable...not just to deceive somebody
Is it really so?? LOL.... deception is from making up yourself more than the normal levels.. over make-up i mean.

let them know how beautiful they are.
Planning to kill us? Guys, be careful. This is witchcraft and treachery.

Well said, how good it is to be a girl, how lovable a mother is, and how you undergo pains.

Unknown said...

nice jha!.. It was quite good!..:)

nerdpa said...

It's a boon to be a girl, no less than wonder. They can take all pain and yet love you if you matter to them.